a question was raised today that i have never been asked before...."if i ever acquire a boyfriend, how would i respond to him doing almost everything for me?"...i was like...i am very independent and i like to do things on my own....its been hard for my since coming here to have guys open doors or even be nice.....coming from california this was a drastic change..i am somewhat getting used to it....i hate it when a guy goes out of his way to open the door for me or to be nice to me...if they get to the door first, i don't mind them holding it open for me...if i get there first let me open it....going on dates, i would expect to pay for myself especially if i have a job and he doesn't, going places i would expect us to switch off who is driving, if he had a car....i know there are other things we talked about...but that is all i can remember at this unhumane hour of 1:30....it seems so much later than 1:30....anyways...its off to get ready for my softball games later today....cya